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Sunday, November 10, 2013

Ugliness and Beauty

“The media generate relentless images of mediocrity and ugliness in talk-shows, tapestries of smothered language and frenetic gratification. ... Beauty is mostly forgotten and made to seem naive and romantic.” So writes John O’Donahue in his book Beauty The Invisible Embrace (published 2003).

I think that at points in (recent) history some people rebelled at general social concepts of beauty, saw them as constraining and demeaning (overly thin models, completely unnaturally made up faces, certain de rigueur clothing styles). So there was a search for more natural looks and more relaxed attitudes. Perhaps these have been taken to extreme. Personally, I don’t find pyjamas a great outfit to see worn on the streets, nor do I like jeans that fall half-way down someone’s bum to reveal their underwear or lack of it. Others might say this is just my point of view and so what? I do think that the naked human body can be beautiful, no matter its shape or age, though I don’t particularly want to see it on the sidewalk everyday (besides in this climate it doesn’t make sense most of the time). Certainly, I don’t believe that we should all look like bankers or all dress alike, and what O’Donahue is saying is not as simplistic as this. His ideas have worth and need to be further examined.
O’Donahue aligns beauty with courage. We need courage to live and the encounter with beauty, he says, can help to awaken courage. I think he’s saying that beauty is more than superficial prettiness; the yearning for beauty lives deep within the human heart, “a transforming presence wherein we unfold towards growth almost before we realize it.”

Reading parts of this book I was reminded of a passage from Leonard Cohen’s novel Beautiful Losers. “God is alive. Magic is afoot. God is alive. Magic is afoot. God is afoot. Magic is alive. Alive is afoot. Magic never died. God never sickened. Many poor men lied. Many sick men lied. Magic never weakened. Magic never hid. Magic always ruled.” And so on – it continues for about a page and a half. If you want to hear it, listen to the song by Buffy St. Marie. The words move me in a way that is not easily described – they feel true, but not in a literal way, rather metaphorical, spiritual – I said, I can’t describe it. It’s like a Zen koan, which you listen to, hear, can’t explain, meditate on, and then suddenly at some moment it blazes into your consciousness. I think that O’Donahue is talking about beauty in this way. It can take us unaware – a view across blue water of distant misty hills, a blaze of sunlight through dark clouds, dark green evergreens dusted with snow on a chilly morning, a few words said by someone you care about, a piece of music, a painting.
Everyone has their own memories of encounters with beauty. Often, though we forget to look for beauty, neglect its lessons and transformative powers. We move at such speed and among such noise that there`s no space to stop, listen, look. A moment of beauty can be small or large, short or long – take the time to watch for revelations of beauty in your life.